Making new friends is hard, you’re not crazy. It’s scientifically proven that adults have a harder time making new friends than children — but why?
University of Maryland psychologist Marisa Franco says organic friendships require two ingredients:
- Continuous unplanned interaction
- Shared vulnerability
Both are most commonly found in children and can be rather hard to come by for full-time professionals, parents, and busy Madisonians. The fix? Create opportunities that foster these ingredients — don’t worry, that’s where we come in. We’re rounding up a few ways to meet people + make new friends in Madison.
❤️ Give a little, get a little
Dane Parks volunteer Program | Check out the DCP events calendar to help with projects like habitat restoration, field research, and park advocacy.
Urban League of Greater Madison | Spend time networking in the ULGM community + volunteer to help mentor and tutor local students.
City of Madison engagement opportunities | The City offers 15 unique programs from library programming to community park activations.
🏙️ Get out on the town
Trivia nights | Meet other brainiacs in the 608 + mingle over a shared love for local, general, or themed trivia.
Dance classes | Local venues such as The Brink Lounge offer a series of dance instructionals, many of which are no experience or partner required. A great place for a meet-cute, if you ask us.
Unique drinking spots | Strike up a conversation with a stranger over video games at I/O, fine art at Dark Horse, or espresso + world literature at Leopold’s.
Try an app | Local entrepreneur Michael Orosz-Fagan launched a new free app, Mesh, that matches groups of Madisonians with potential friends based on taking a brief online survey.
They say it takes 50 hours to develop a casual friendship with someone and 200 for a close friendship — so take it slow, Rome wasn’t built in a day. Remember, you can always find plans in the 608 through our events page.
Know of a great local spot for mingling? Let us know.
